79 years...

My grandmother turned 79 years old yesterday and they held a surprise birthday party for her at church. Many members of the family were there, along with other people that she has cared for, in one way or another.

Mamaw has been a grandmother to me and many other kids from the area. She was always ready with a spoonful of Dimeatapp or Vicks 44 when she heard a sniffle or cough...whether it was her kid or not...:)

She always knew what always made me feel better...a cup of chicken noodle soup... a homemade roll or cookie...or just a hug.

After leaving her party yesterday evening, I started thinking...She has done so much for people around her. Have I shown the compassion to others that she has? I don't know, but I will try to be and try to make her proud. In 79 years, I could not even name (or count) the number of people that she has helped. Just as our minister said yesterday while blessing the food, he was giving thanks for my grandmother and all that she has done for so many.

Our church has a free luncheon every Wednesday. My grandmother is always in the kitchen with the other ladies from the church cookin' up something good for the guests. She's always in the kitchen...period! Always cookin' up something tasty!

And now as I am writing this about her...I am beginning to understand...

It is strange how simple things can make you realize complex concepts! My grandmother didn't go to college...didn't finish high school. She helped run her family's business...She raised a group of great kids (and some good grandkids :))...She provides warm meals to many people...has reached out to many in a variety of ways. Sometimes I want to be "somebody" and fantasize about being famous or "well-known". I have been reminded of what is important. It's not that you are "somebody" to the masses, it's that you are a "friend" to a few. My grandmother is someone and a friend...she's someone to ME and all of the other lives that she has touched.

My mamaw is still teaching me things all the time. I just hope she knows how much I've learned from her and how grateful I am to have her in my life.

I just pray that I will have her in my life for a while longer....And I know that it is unreasonable, but I hope she's around for another 79 years. :)